Cook the grits low and slow
Combine grits, milk and water in a heavy saucepan. Bring to a bare simmer and cook over low heat, whisking often, 35 to 45 minutes until completely tender. Keep them loose; add a splash of warm water if they tighten.

Creamy stone-ground grits, smoky pan gravy and shrimp seared fast enough to stay juicy — the Lowcountry classic built around the shrimp instead of cooking past it.
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Combine grits, milk and water in a heavy saucepan. Bring to a bare simmer and cook over low heat, whisking often, 35 to 45 minutes until completely tender. Keep them loose; add a splash of warm water if they tighten.
Stir in 3 tablespoons butter, cheddar and Parmigiano. Season lightly and keep warm over the lowest heat.
Cook bacon or tasso in a wide skillet until crisp. Lift it out and leave about 2 tablespoons fat in the pan.
Pat the shrimp very dry and season. Heat the bacon fat over medium-high and sear the shrimp in one layer 60 to 75 seconds per side, just until nearly opaque. Transfer to a plate.
Lower the heat. Cook onion and scallion whites until soft. Add garlic and tomato paste; cook until the paste darkens. Deglaze with wine and reduce by half. Add stock, Worcestershire, paprika and hot sauce; simmer until lightly thickened.
Turn off the heat. Swirl in the remaining cold butter and lemon juice. Return the shrimp and bacon only long enough to glaze and warm through, about 30 seconds.
Spoon loose grits into warm bowls, top with shrimp and glossy gravy, and finish with scallion greens and black pepper.
OPTIONAL UPGRADE
Keep the core recipe clean, or flip this on for one or two high-impact upgrades.
Use these recipe-specific texture cues. Color and curl alone cannot establish safety; use a thermometer to check 145°F / 63°C at the thickest part for cooked shrimp.
The little details that make a big difference.
The gravy needs more time than the shrimp. Cook them separately and reunite at the end.
Large enough to brown in bacon fat without the center racing past done.
Grits continue thickening off heat; they should pool, not stand like mashed potatoes.
If you have shells, a quick stock makes the gravy taste unmistakably of shrimp.